The Womanizer Blog - TheLife and Sexual experiences
| 25 January 2009
Okay here it goes if you really want to get laid on line you need to follow a few simple rules:1. Put your picture up a recent one that really does look like you. Not one without your shirt on , or if you are a women wearing next to nothing. Come across somewhat level headed you picture is the seller.
2. Take it all with a grain of salt be absolutely casual, if someone does not get back to your inquiry leave it be NO STALKING. For those of you who don't get that. If you e-mail someone and they don't reply leave them alone.
3. Do not waste your time by chasing women that if you where in a bar would not give you the time of da . Do chase the women whom you truly do have common interests with. That way when you finally do get to talking to one or go out on a date you have common things to talk about that will help the other open up to you much quicker.
4. Be honest the more truth full you are about your intentions the better. Do not go on about marriage kids or even a serious relationship you just meet this person so keep it light. Trust me I have heard the horror stories from women. You morons seem to be able to scare women away in a half an hour conversation.
5. When you do go out, offer to meet somewhere in public so that the women feel safe and are not worried about what your intentions . Chivalry is not dead offer to pay. I suggest a quick coffee, stay away from the alcohol first time out. If you do go for a drink leave it at one or two max. Do not do dinner first time out it is too much time and money invested if there is no attraction. REMEMBER (FOR THE DATING STUPID) Just because a women meets you for a coffee or a drink does not mean that they are your girl friends or do they owe you anything. KEEP IT CASUAL BE POLITE. When the women warm up to you they will lead the conversation in the direction they want it to go. End the first date after no more than two hours. Ask them if it is all right to call. If things have gone well casually say we should go out again.
6. DO NOT CALL THE WOMAN THE NEXT DAY. Leave it a few days. After 2 days send a text or a brief call telling them you had a good time and would like to get out again. Keep the conversation light. This time it can be dinner or a movie ask if they want to meet you or would they rather you pick them up. On this date it is okay to split the bill if it is offered. Again keeping it light try to stay off conversations of ex girl friends wives or kids . Do not seem desperate. Let the woman make the moves. The end of the day we all want the same thing.
7. You may get the offer on the second date to enter their homes if they ask you in play it cool, let her make the moves so she feels safe with you. By the 3rd date you should full well know where things are going if you are not at least kissing each other it is time to cut your losses. Remember be polite, no does mean no, move on do not call, do not stalk. Women like to talk and have friends so be polite respect their space. You never know she may introduce you to a friend or two.
SOME CASUAL RULES
- Be polite
- Always pay first date out, offer on the second
- Be casual, keep it light.
- Do not missrepresent yourself if you are heavy set do not say you are fit.
( you never know a hottie may like a heavy set guy).
- Respect a women’s space do not stalk. No means no......
- When it comes to talking about sex let that women bring it up you will know when the conversation is going that way.
| 07 December 2008
Where to start ....My buddy wanted me to write about some seasonal shit.The only thing seasonal I notice is the drain on my wallet for gifts. Okay thats not the only thing, I do find the month of December alot like weddings , funerals, and other needy times. Women tend to call that you have not heard from all year.
It's always the same hey how you been? Still single ? We should get out for a drink? What thay are really saying is the Christmas season is here I am alone and lonely. I started to notice it a few years ago now it is down right clear , when December hits the phone starts to ring. An
y how I will let you know how it goes lol. I was thinking about writing on the average guys guide to picking up women. I have seen it all some of the plainest guys having women fall backward for them . The bottom line is women are nesters and men are the hunter gatherers. Women love confident, slightly aggresive men who know what they want . If you can pull the personna off even if you are full of shit you will get laid. A little self maintaince goes along way too guys. I am telling you the more you cut throught the bullshit the better. There is also the laid back approach where you are just there to listen be a friend this approach works as well but takes longer and sometimes back fires when Mr aggresive sweeps her out form under you.
The bottom line is you have to get out there approach women. Talk to them, take a chance! Do not be affraid to smile and say hi to the knock out. There is a good chance she has a hard time meeting laid back guys because men are intimidated by their looks. There is also the time to realize it is just not going there with that girl cut your loses and move on there is always another one around the corner. Don't be afraid to use alittle chivalry even in these days women still like to be treated nice. Hey if things don't go the way you wanted with a girl and you have realised it is just not going to happen keep the door open never leave mad always maintain that laid back attitude because sooner than later she may just introduce you to a friend of hers.
Remember practice makes perfect always be a gentleman, no really mens no. Get out there talk to the women notice her shoes, her hair, listen to what she has to say ask about it . Let her know you are focused on her. It takes time sooner or later you get a feel for it you find a way to bring the naughty side out of women just for the fun of it . Women are human to they are raunchier than us they just don't like to let us know i . The bootom line is even if 10 girls turn you down to dance even if you end up dancing with the chubby girl at least you are dancing.
| 15 November 2008
WHY DOES SEX SEEM SO MUCH BETTER IN A HOTEL?
This is more a general statement but after an afternoon romp in Travel Lodge only to be interrupted by something to eat and a swim. I have certainly found the sex to be hotter more focused. As I sit here wondering I have concluded the combination of a little bit of excitement being somewhere unfamiliar, having fun when the rest of the world is working, no everyday distractions of life such as phones, kids, work.
You can just focus on the other person. Completely on sex. Maybe that is why I have found sex in others beds so much better I am not thinking of their neighbors, or m
y phone or kids. Just how hard can I fuck this girl. How good can I make her feel. So for any of you that care to read and your sex life is ho hum. I highly suggest saving your relationship by sneaking out for an afternoon meeting at a hotel, motel, inn. Whatever and seriously fucking your brains out for a few hours. Let everyone wonder where you are. It will most certianly bring so excitement back to your relationship.
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