Hot Sex Tips

Written by Administrator | 08 September 2008
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You’ve heard about it. The Kama Sutra - the ultimate guide to sensual pleasure. There are many myths and theories about the Kama Sutra. People question whether or not its age old sexual traditions are relevant in today’s modern society. These are just a few of the issues surrounding this piece of literature that will be explored in Health24’s ‘Guide to the Kama Sutra’. This is an ancient text, so it may be difficult for people living in the 12st century to relate to some of its content. This guide will take the core concepts of the Kama Sutra, and attempt to apply them to today’s world.

Some of the descriptions in the Kama Sutra can be read as somewhat ridiculous. But though some of these suggestions may seem ridiculous, they were designed for one purpose – to liven things up in the bedroom. Pay special attention, and you will be able to do just that.

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What is it?
Everybody knows that the Kama Sutra is a book full of sexual positions, right? Wrong. It is much more than that. ‘Sexual Science’ is the direct translation of the Kama Sutra, and is the earliest example of a traditional Hindu love-manual. The manual was compiled by Vatsyayana, an Indian sage who lived sometime during the second century A.D.

But what’s even more interesting is that his work was based on earlier works called the ‘Kama Shastras’ which translates into ‘Rule of Love’, which is dated back to the seventh century B.C. This whole sex issue has been around for quite a while.

The Kama Sutra explores many important factors surrounding love and sex, from the preparation of the body for lovemaking, to the 69 positions of Kama, to the importance of afterplay.

So prepare your body and mind as we help you to become a bedroom god, and learn the ins and outs of the Kama Sutra. Who knows what it might do for your sex life?

The Kama Sutra 2008

There are many important aspects to sex. It’s not just about getting naked, getting busy, and falling asleep. The Kama Sutra outlines four steps for a perfect evening of love:

Hygiene

One of the most important thing for lovers to remember before sex is hygiene. No-one wants to go to bed with a smelly partner.

Your breath is an important thing to consider when in bed with someone. You are in close contact with that person throughout the session, and if your breath smells like a dustbin, you can be certain your night of lovemaking will be cut short. The Kama Sutra suggests that ‘sweet breath will make for a positive sensual relationship’. It goes on to emphasis ‘good oral hygiene’, and ‘a good diet’. Drinking more than 5 cups of water a day will help perfume your breath. Don’t forget to brush your teeth and tongue thoroughly before and after sex.

But hygiene does not have to be a solitary affair. Why not take a bath or a shower together in preparation for a night of sex. Bubble baths are great too, and don’t forget the candles.

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Caresses and sensual touching

Sex is like a sand castle. A foundation needs to be built, it then needs to be sculptured to perfection, and then allowed to be washed gently away by the sea.

for the kill too quickly will end the experience after a couple of hours. The trick is to draw out being with each other for as long as possible. There are many things that can be done prior to penetration. Abstaining from penetration for as long as possible will increase the anticipation of the act, and will intensify the moment of penetration for both partners.

This is easier said than done, however. The Kama Sutra describes 12 embraces that are designed for partners to be in sensual physical contact with one another without the act of sex.

These embraces usually occur naturally in relationships, but you can use them in preparation for sex. Try a selection of these throughout the day with your partner. You’ll soon discover that by the time the lights go out, you’ll have your partner more than ready for some steamy action.

The touching embrace
“When a man under some pretext or other goes in front of or alongside a woman and touches her body with his own, it is called the touching embrace.”

A soft unexpected touch can be very erotic. This act is a subtle display of affection, reminding your partner that you are still there, and of what is to come. Soft, unexpected touches throughout the day will do wonders in preparing your partner for the night of love ahead.

The pressing embrace
“When on the occasion of walking together a lover presses the other’s body forcibly against a wall or pillar, it is called a pressing embrace.”

Perhaps ‘forcibly pressing’ your partner against walls and pillars all day might become a bit much, but it is good to help emphasise the importance of pre-sexual foreplay. Passionately embracing your partner during the day shows them that you are still there, and that you’re still keen.

The twining of a creeper
“When a woman, clinging to a man as a creeper twines around a tree, bends his head down to hers with the desire of kissing him and slightly makes the sound of sut sut, embraces him, and looks lovingly towards him, it is called the embrace of the twining creeper.”

Though it is difficult to interpret what the sound of ‘sut sut’ is, what is important with this embrace is the display of affection the woman is giving. This embrace is a very personal one, and is a display of physical affection given by the woman.

The milk and water embrace
“When a man and a woman are very much in love with each other, and, not thinking of any pain or hurt, embrace each other as if they were entering into each other’s bodies either while the woman is sitting on the lap of the man, or in front of him, or on a bed, then it is called an embrace like a mixture of milk and water.”

This embrace can be interpreted as dry sex in modern terms. Simply, this means sex with your clothes on. Again, this is a very passionate act, and can be extremely erotic because of the concept of that small barrier of material that is the only thing stopping a couple from actual intercourse.

The embrace of the Jaghana
“When a man presses the jaghana (area between the navel and the thighs) of a woman’s body against his own and mounts upon her to practice scratching with the nail or finger, biting, striking, or kissing, the hair of the woman being loose and flowing, it is called the embrace of the jaghana.”

A little gentle pain can be an extremely sensual and erotic experience. Try soft scratches on the upper and lower back, or gentle bites all over the body. Body massages can also help get your partner in the mood, but be sure not to kill the night with over-zealous sexual aggression.

The embrace of the forehead
“When either of the lovers touches the mouth, the eyes, and the forehead of the other with his or her own, it is called the embrace of the forehead.”

This embrace is a very personal one, with the faces of the two lovers coming into contact. It is a gentle gesture of affection, and good for any relationship.

Setting the mood

The Kama Sutra outlines the importance of a good atmosphere before lovemaking. After all, you both need to be in the mood, or it’s not going to happen.

Start with a good meal. Not only will a good meal allow the two partners to have some quiet time together, it will help charge the batteries for the night that is to follow.

Set up an ambience in strategic locations around the house where you plan to take action. The Kama Sutra suggests candles, flowers, silk and satin, soft lighting effects, and incense for atmosphere.

Make a mission of the evening. Decide on what you are going to do, and what positions you are going to try the day before, so that you both have time to think about the pleasure that is to come. This will help elevate anticipation, and create the sexual energy that the Kama Sutra suggests is a vital part of lovemaking.