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WHAT'S "HOT" & WHAT'S "NOT"

Written by Darling Nikki | 11 February 2009

sex fetishSomeone that I know (but not well) asked me recently if I have any fetishes. By definition, I'd have to say that "no, I don't". I think he was hoping for a different answer .

So sorry to disappoint. He'll never really 'know' anyway.


Let's see. In my humble opinion, here's a few (samples of) "what's hot", and "what's not" points, when it comes to sexual interactions.






HOT:

In Personality: Confidence, not arrogance. A guy that is comfortable discussing almost anything, and does so with intelligence.


1. A guy that enjoys sex and says so. Talking dirty, but not too raunchy is a big turn on. A flirty, playfulness - he's fun and easy to get along with, in or out of bed. (If @ his place) sometimes he greets you at the door with just a towel, fresh out of the shower. There's a few "greetings" that are pretty hot. That works both ways.

2. Hair pulling/grabbing or restraining a little. That's fun; but nothing so rough that it hurts.

3. Optional; to keep a hot little thong on, and pull it aside. Wearing boots, stay up stockings (and keeping them on). Black, white or fishnet. They all work. Take a few pictures - if you trust the person.

4. Watching.. mirrors if they're around. Getting kissed on the navel, hips and butt-cheeks.

5. Vibrators, toys - always good to have as an option but not necessary. Flavored lube is nice too. It can really add to the fun.

6. He's a good kisser.. And when it comes to "coming", ladies first. A guy that will let a woman watch him get himself off. And/Or he wants to watch you bring yourself to orgasm.

7. A nice little glistening sweat.. Hot body, a bit slippery.. Delicious.

8. This doesn't have to be long and drawn out. But hey if there's time, teasing is pretty fun.

PS: Even some text messages are pretty juicy.

NOT:

In Personality: Jealousy/insecurity. A stiff. Insensitive. Judgemental. Or just mental (wink).

1. Silence or little communication during sex. We all want some feedback/interaction. This is no time to dummy up.

2. Detached, Mechanical movements, like he's all by himself grinding a pillow or a blow up doll. If this is the case: he ought to be by himself. He's no FUN. Go..Get out.

3. A guy that keeps his socks on (assuming the sex is in bed).

4. A guy that wears a condom and still pulls out when he comes?? Go Away!

5. Excessive body hair (go wax or shave!) and dripping sweat a few minutes into things, like a marathon runner (can't stand it).

6. If he has to stop NUMEROUS times (once/twice is okay) because he comes too quick, or worse, if he actually comes in 3 or 4 minutes and thinks a good time was had by all. And he's not just having an "off" day. It's standard operating procedure. He didn't even trrrry to stop himself. No thanks. Fire that man, lol. No more invites.

There's more but I think I made a few good points.

Simple Enough?


Darling Nikki


Good Girl's Don't

Written by Darling Nikki | 03 February 2009

"She's your adolescent dream, school boy stuff, sticky sweet romance, and she makes you wanna scream, wishin' ya could get inside her pants. So you fantasize away, while you're squeezing her, you thought you heard her sayin' good girls don't, good girls don't, I shouldn't be telling you, good girls don't, but I do".

The Knack

Is promiscuity hard-wired in certain individuals? A universal study concluded that MEN, whether single, married or gay, want more sexual partners than women do. Both Men AND Women in Great Britain are ranked #1 in the "Randy" standings, for their total number of sexual partners and one night stands. Apparently, the women in the UK are becoming more promiscuous than the men. So much for 'studies'. Women have started to act more like men. The gap is narrowing. We couldn't beat you, so I guess we decided to join you. Fathers, lock up your daughters.

There's a few reasons that help to explain why (some) people are promiscuous.

It may be one or more of the following (but not limited to) and of course, depending on the person:

1. They really enjoy having sex with different people, and often. (Ummm there's probably a few sex-addicts in this group).

BUTT :).... having said that -
If you're single, you have four choices the way I see it;
A) Celibacy.

B) Having sex with someone who you feel after a few innocent dates "might" become something more (no guarantees there). You could be in for some dry spells on this 'plan'. Keep the toys close by.

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Tales from the Stables

Written by Darling Nikki | 30 January 2009

Think Stables; saddle up and let's run with this for a bit. I find some humor in categorizing "friends with benefits" and "just friends". I don't like that term ("FWB"), but it's easily understood and now is not the time to make up a new, catchy acronym. "FB" is even worse, but high marks - it's straightforward. F#CK BUDDY. No confusion there.

Ever heard the joke (or suggestion) that one has a "Stable of Stallions?". Yes, I have jokingly been accused of having a "Stable" - (by my friends). My "stable" is pretty exclusive, I think. Like a membership at a private Golf Club, not just anyone gets in. These are the horses I know.  Here's a horse fact: Some horses (real horses) can undo the bolts on their stables and escape. They are so clever. Aha - Maybe thaaaat's how a couple of mine got away, hahaha. Trust me, a few have been kicked out. I was going to say 'kicked out hard', lol but that sounded well... you know.

I think referring to my "JUST FRIEND guys" as PALOMINOS is fitting. They account for the majority of the Herd. I have a few constants, but this group expands and contracts.

Then there's a MUSTANG or two, that I know/have known. Yeah, those spirited wildcards, they just will not be tamed - AT ALL. But they're still sweet, even if a little (or a lot) out of control. I occasionally ask myself "why?" with these ones. I don't know the answer. They're fun??

Last but not least, there's the THOROUGHBREDS (my favorite). One in particular travels - A LOT. Thaaat sucks. He is both incredibly gorgeous, and has an intriguing personality. He effortlessly radiates sex appeal and we always have a great time, but he's away so much. That man knows how to treat women.

Ok, well let's not leave out the not-so-revered ONE TRICK PONY. I must admit that yes, I've known a few. They aren't in the "Stable" lol. My ex was (is) a one trick pony. (It was ALL one big trick/clusterf#ck with that one). No blue blood there. No blood at all. That would suggest he's human, (and he's not). He's missing more than a few "links". If that sounds bitchy, oh well, it's true. On being with him? I plead: Temporary Insanity mixed in with a bit of Stockholm Syndrome.

Some horses are just not viable anymore (much like the "ex"). They need shipping off to the glue factory or wherever horses go when they can't function anymore as they should (or were perhaps useless to begin with). "Laminitis" can hit when they are overfed, injured, broken, afflicted etc. The more common term; They are deemed to be "LAME" - ahhhh - just like some people I know, (lol that I don't know anymore).

Ok, I'm just having some fun with the "stable" theme. I love horses. REAL horses. If I didn't live in a city, I'd have 50 of them!

Sigh, I was reminded of another 'downside' - being single is a drag when there's bad weather. None of the horses in the "FWB Stable" have a snowblower or a plough, and let's just say that they are not lining up offering to shovel the driveway. Niiiice. Where's the "benefit" in that?? "Ex One trick pony" took the snowblower and left me with the f#cking lawnmower. One Palomino that I asked "would've come" but doesn't have a truck. The other (also a Palomino) has a truck, a snowblower AND a plough!! but he said he was "busy". That one is a newer addition and is protesting being put in the "just friends" stable, otherwise I bet he would've helped. He's a 'bailer' I think. There's the door, don't hit yourself on the way out. WHOA people, I draw the line (one of several) at having to screw someone to get my driveway shovelled. F#CKERS. I should just crack the whip on the lot of them. :)

GO STEELERS........  Have a great Superbowl Weekend.

Darling Nikki

Pandora's Box

Written by Darling Nikki | 27 January 2009

Even Pandora did not intend for all those "evils" to escape her jar. And yes, it was a JAR, not a box.. Curiousity just got the better of her. At least ``HOPE`` remained (in the jar).. Good old hope.. the last thing to die.  I'm going to bitch a little here about married men.. Rich Married Men, Rich Men, and Men in general.. .. Why do so many people cheat on their partners.. is it curiousity, or are some of us just naughty by nature? Sidenote: Not ALL married men are DAWGS, so no offence to the faithful husbands/partners out there.

Oh I've heard plenty of confessions.. One of my favorites has got to be where a person who shall of course never ever be named, had an affair with his wife's sister (also married, with children) that spanned a DECADE!!! And in his own words, he was "in love" with her..I wonder how many of her kids are actually her husband's!?).. So get this - the husband and wife stay together - and the sister's husband is miraculously never the wiser (but he must've been told something) because a quick move upstate, and the sisters speak to one another no more, but the person that I know and his wife are still together.. I'm not sure how he pulled that one off.. not like you can give the wife a box of chocolates with a Hallmark Card that says, "Honey, I'm so sorry I fu#ked your sister (whom I was also in love with), repeatedly and for years.. Please forgive me?" 

People say they are working on their marriages to get past these "things". My Ass.. Tell me his ass is not permanently in the doghouse. Trust is a huge thing to lose, and oftentimes impossible to regain. That's why I say, if you really love someone - you need to be able to trust them completely.  With anything, with everything - at least the important things. People take each other for granted way too often and it's a shame, because things can change in a minute and that person you love can be gone.. taken away by some cruel hand of fate.  Just look at 9/11.. and the dominoes are still falling on that one. And people find themselves wishing they had said more, been nicer, done more with that person.

So damn it people, if you love someone (assuming they love you too), then make sure they know.. It's a wonderful gift to give if it's from the heart and you can't buy that in any store.. Okay enough of my soft side.. I'm better at being a bitch, lol.  A little off topic, but with regards to Hallmark Cards, they also don't make one that says "Sorry I was so drunk when I banged you last night that I pissed your bed and ruined your mattress"... NO NO this did NOT happen to me, but it happened to a girlfriend.  I'd go ballistic if it did, and I can guarantee two things: There would be a new mattress on my bed within 2 hours, and there wouldn't be any invites back to the loveshack haha.


Rich married men? Oh, they are just too much.. they think they can buy anyone.. I prefer to use the term "RENT".. they are so shocked when you don't turn into mush at their offers of trips, dinners, this, that and the other.. My insubordination shocks them! Some of them are friends (more like acquaintances that I keep at arm's length, but I have to deal with them to some degree due to work). I have looked right at one of them after a proposition (one of several) and said, "tell you what, I'll let you know if I hit a dry patch".  What is it with these guys? Like I want to go on a trip with a married guy that I'm not really into, just to be treated like a f#ck doll for a week at some tropical destination resort, while he squeezes in a few golf games and a business meeting or two.  I was engaged in an "exhange" with a man recently, he's Separated but very wealthy, (I've known him for a few years) I don't have to work with him  on any level, but I met him through work. These guys must enjoy abuse that's all I can say. I think they find my bluntness both alarming, and entertaining, they always come back for more.

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The Upside and Downside of it

Written by Darling Nikki | 22 January 2009

A male friend of mine, (bless him) recently made a heroic effort to convince me that today's all too often practice of "hook ups" is synonomous with dating. "What??!! Dating??" I asked, with a raised eyebrow.. Needless to say, I was unconvinced. Someone coming over to jump into bed with you, or just plain "jump" you, is NOT dating.
 
So what he's trying to sell me, oops I mean tell me, is that some guy that I'm having a fling with, who comes to my house (or me to their's at a prior agreed upon time) is a "Date". I beg to differ.. I jokingly refer to THAT as an "appointment". Alright, sure there's times it's been less than "planned", a little 'spur of the moment', but there's no way, no how that THAT is dating! But man can it be fun.
 
Quick text message: "Door's unlocked, come up to my bedroom". It's just like Delivery!  And yes, I have been on dates.. ACTUAL dates.. they do not fit the description of anything I said above.. Although in some instances, those "dates" are just an elongated form of the cut to the chase "date".. these guys just take you out for dinner first.. and then they look at you, like you're dessert! lol fattened up a little, like a sacrificial lamb.. the idea being, (I'm speculating here) "what a great guy I am.. I took her to a nice place, showed her a good time, made conversation, feigned interest, made sure she had an excellent meal - how could she possibly end the night here??" No trades-ies.. Buying a woman dinner should not be considered an automatic green light for the next stop, "destination; Sex".. Bottom line, if a woman wants to have sex with you, it's not going to come down to how many dinners you went out for unless perhaps she's husband shopping and playing really hard to get or something..
 
Being single, and considered attractive can lead to its own special brand of chaos in a hurry. Yes, lol it has its ups and downs. ( I will save some of the other ups and downs for later, ie; how married men you knew when you were with your ex-loser partner suddenly, and without warning think you want them, how women think you WANT their men, how it's great to be able to do whatever the hell you want, how you can cherry-pick, left right and centre.. you're out of the fishbowl now.. etc etc)
 
Here's a definite downside to being single: You're laid out with a bad cold, flu virus, the whole nine yards - - and you're almost positive its the plague because your fever is SO high it feels like you're never going to see the light of day again... there you are, lifeless on the couch drifting in and out of a sweaty/cold sleep. Feeling "normal" has become a foggy memory. Just thinking about getting up to go to the lav is exhausting, not that there's any point, because you're pretty dehydrated anyway.. That's when it occurs to you. That thought; 'I could be dead or dying and no one but my MOTHER would know or care'.
 
Oh and a few close friends, if you're lucky. Lying there, feeling like your number is surely coming up, you have some time to think. Oh-Oh. You daydream a little "gee wouldn't it be nice if someone (that good looking, sweet boyfriend I don't have) was here taking a little care of poor, sniffling, almost dead, feverish me?". But he doesn't appear.. nobody does.. Then your fever breaks and off you go. You're still alive!! It's business as usual, and that nurseboy/boyfriend or boytoy you were wishing you had?? Whatever. He's nowhere to be seen.. Who was that guy anyway, that I was hallucinating about while my temperature was running dangerously high? Oh yeah, it was Tom Brady.. proof positive that I was delusional.. Here is a cold hard FACT: At no time have any of the men that I "date"  said anything about "in sickness and in health", or "call me when you feel like you're dying - I'm there for you baby, just try getting rid of me in your time of need."  : ) But hey, at least I have my friends.. and I do have a few very good friends! 
 
Adieu for now..
Darling Nikki

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